the best way to summarize sex education in america right now is that most teenage boys think the hymen makes a popping sound when penetrated and most teenage girls don’t know what a hymen is
Alright girls, listen up! Think of your vagina as a tissue box. That little piece of plastic that keeps shit from falling out? That is the hymen. It can look like
or
or any number of thickness/tightness/shapes
IT IS NOT A PLUG. IT CAN AND DOES STRETCH. TEARING IS UNNECESSARY AND RATHER UNHELPFUL.
TAKE IT SLOW. MAMA LOVES YOU. STAY SAFE KIDS.
this is a great analogy but remember that not everyone with a hymen is a girl and not all girls have hymens!