So a few months back, I asked if it was appropriate for me, as a mentally-ill person with no physical disability, to use the terms “spoons”. And even though I got a few different responses, this is basically the answer I came away with: No. Because people said it makes them uncomfortable.
And really, that should be the end of it. But people always need reasons for why they shouldn’t do something someone has asked them not to do, so here are a few:
if you arent familiar with the spoon theory, heres the link (i recommend you read that first so you arent confused by what you read above)