schrodingersowen:

friendly reminder that the rules of asexuality are

  • you aren’t attracted to other people in a sexual way
  • thats it actually
  • there are no others
  • you can still be sex positive
  • you can still enjoy sex
  • you can still have kinks 
  • you can still think people are attractive 
  • you just dont look at them and feel like you want to bang them
  • of course you can also not enjoy all these things and be a perfectly valid and awesome asexual person too