-If it will endanger you directly, don’t feel obligated.
-If it will endanger you emotionally and mentally, don’t feel obligated.
-If it will create a toxic environment, don’t feel obligated.
-If you are just not ready, feel no shame. You’re not obligated.Being “in the closet” is not shameful. If you want to argue with me on this, take it elsewhere; that toxicity will not be permitted here.