sherlockpottersdivergentstars:
yes, it is possible to hate a parent
no, not in the ‘spoilt brat they didn’t buy me an iPhone’ kind of way
but in the ‘i hate the way you’ve made me feel, the things you’ve done and the things you’ve said’ kind of way
in the ‘ i just need you to walk out of my life, shut the door and never come back again’ kind of way
in the ‘you’ve ruined what are supposed to be the best years of my life’ kind of way
in the ‘you are no parent to me, you are nothing to me’ kind of way
Never let anyone try to make you feel bad for not loving a parent – or any family member for that matter. Blood relation does not automatically make someone deserve your love and respect. If someone in your family treats you like shit, never ever feel bad for not loving it.