okay okay okay im sO TIRED of seeing ‘the ideal trans person’ as this flat chest flat stomach short haired person
im trans, i identify as agender. i would love nothing MORE than to have a flat chest and a flat stomach but the fact of the matter is is that i have belly fat, stretch marks, and big hips, i have a DD sized chest that a traditional binder (which im wearing) wont flatten, i have thighs that rub together and baby fat on my cheeks; i am not ‘skinny’ and im sorry that i dont fit into this ‘ideal trans person’ binary that shoudnt exist in whats supposed to be an accepting community!!
i am chubby!! but my chubbiness doesnt make me any less of what i am, i am trans and i am chubby; those things are not mutually exclusive. i am a trans chubby person and im fucking proud of it
no trans person should be criticized or told that they arent trans because they ‘dont look trans’ or ‘youre too big to be trans’, fuck that. heres to the chubby trans people who, no matter how hard they try, can’t ‘pass’, heres to the trans people who can’t afford to get surgeries or buy hormones, heres to the trans people who can’t look the way they want because they live in fear every day.
heres to the trans people who arent ‘traditional’, i love you and you are valid