vaspider:

orioniszeta:

littlestsatanist:

If you “couldn’t stand life with an autistic child” or “don’t have the patience to deal with an autistic child” then maybe don’t.ever.have.kids.

If you aren’t willing to love and care for your child unconditionally, then you really shouldn’t be raising kids.

I will take it a step further, and I mean this with all of my heart:

If you (generic you) decide to bring a child into this world, you owe them unconditional love and care. This is not optional. This is not something you give or withdraw depending on the child’s compliance, performance, configuration, sexuality, gender identity, grades, room cleanliness, etc. You owe them love. You owe them care. You owe them support. You decided to bring them into this world, you owe them. It is your obligation and your responsibility.

(This is exactly why I believe that choice is important and that forced or coerced motherhood is really fucking wrong.)