thebigblackwolfe:

thesmallestonewasme:

Listen up gaybies, because this is important:

It’s that time of year again and you’re going to be seeing a lot of post going around warning young straight girls away from much older men and boys that take a sudden interest as if this is a problem unique to cishet people.

You may think you’re more mature than your straight or cis peers. Maybe you are. And you may also feel like there are no romantic opportunities for you with people your own age. This might also, unfortunately, be true at the moment.

But I’m telling you right now you have just as much reason to be wary of much older people taking an interest in you and I would be very, very careful with them.

I know it gets better feels like bullshit. I know no one wants to wait around for a perfect fit when they feel alone or misunderstood. But you deserve a supportive and healthy experience as much as your non-lgbtqia+ counterparts.

Please take care of yourself.

please take note of the gender neutral language in this, this isn’t limited to creepy ass 40 year old gay dudes cruising for 18 year old twinks y’all.