rubyfruitjumble:

rubyfruitjumble:

hey, if you don’t know whether you’re bi or gay, it’s okay, you’re okay, it’s okay, you’re okay

to elaborate slightly: figuring out sexuality can be really messy especially when you are a woman or girl who has been taught to prioritize men your whole life. deducing whether or not you are experiencing “compulsory” or “genuine” attraction to men is an arduous task that’s near impossible for many people. it is 100% okay to claim an identity label without being extremely certain of it and by doing so, you are not being “problematic.” do what feels right to you and if it doesn’t feel right, it’s okay to change it