freewillandphysics:

girlslovegrls:

hey if you have to lie about your gf or gender or sexual orientation these holidays, just know you aren’t a bad person!!!! you are valuing your safety over all else and you are right for doing so!!!

I’d just like to add that this includes your emotional safety. Even if you are pretty sure you won’t face any major consequences, if you’re not ready you’re not ready.

You deserve to come out on your own time in exactly the way that you want/need to. If you need to keep some information to yourself until that moment comes, it’s absolutely okay.