transpotter:

trans/queerphobia is not limited solely to the actual murder of people it also includes but is not limited to:

• casual cissexism (ie. “girls are so strong dealing with their periods!”)
• denial of privilege (ie. “yeah gay people might have it hard but i have it hard too and im straight!!”)
• trivialization of oppression (ie. “not all cis people are like that!! theres a few assholes out there, but most people are accepting!”)
• passive by-standing (ie. not actively oppressing trans/queer people but also not DOING ANYTHING when they are being oppressed)
• refocusing attention onto the privileged party (ie. “yeah you may get called a [t slur] but you called me a cishet which is bullying!!”)
• weaponizing support (ie. “now that you were mean to me i dont know if i want to support queer people anymore”)
• invalidation of anger (ie. “just because youre oppressed doesnt mean you can just bully people!”)
• simplifying oppression (ie. “lets all just be nice to each other!”)
• erasure of identities (ie. “just stop labeling yourself and you wont get oppressed!”