hedwig-dordt:

luaren:

things that are sex shaming –

• “she’s a sl-t for having all that sex”
• “girls shouldn’t wear tank tops to school because it is distracting”
• “that skin tight dress means she’s asking for it”

things that are not sex shaming –

• “I would prefer to not see a stranger’s butt”
• “I do not want to hear explicit details about your sex life”

there’s a difference between sex shaming and wanting sexual security

It’s kinda sad we have explain these things, but here we are